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Margaret Reyes Dempsey's avatar

My heart just exploded and I’m buried in two tons of red glitter. Thank you for this beautiful piece. (And for your Substack truths, which have me feeling less guilty.) And the orchitis! That made me guffaw.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Margaret, for reading and for sharing this precious vignette! As for the orchitis, I have no idea what it is exactly, but I remember my old jazz guitar teacher mentioning it a lot. As in: 'You're playing so badly it gives me orchitis!' :) I guess it's a skin condition, but I haven't looked it up.

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Margaret Reyes Dempsey's avatar

😂😂😂 oh, Silvio, this gets better and better. You MUST look it up. I’ll wait.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Oh! Now I'm curious. Will do once I finish with all comments. Wait here, don't leave! lol

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

OMG now I finally know what orchitis is! And I have to say that maybe I should have picked a different condition... 😂

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Nathan Slake's avatar

I had to google that medical condition, and then I guffawed. ;)

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Margaret Reyes Dempsey's avatar

Me too! I thought it was a crazy auto”in”correct for otitis, especially since he was referring to hearing a word. I don’t know about your Google experience, but mine came with a full-color graphic. 😂 Highlight of my day. 😂 We didn’t get that far in my Pre-Med classes back in the day. I love when writing surprises me in so many ways.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Haha, this is so funny! On my side, however, I had to look up 'guffaw', and I’m glad I did -- it sounds great! Thank you!

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Nathan Slake's avatar

Hehe yep, quite the impressive array of anatomical images when I googled it. ;)

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

LOL!

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Julie Stream's avatar

Love this letter! It made me reflect on my own long ago desire. You stated it perfectly-the reasons not to, and then, finally ,to dedicate time to write, not worrying about what flows from the end of the pencil. Thank you for this Silvio.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Julie! Yes, I guess it's all about letting go, in a way.

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Ann Collins's avatar

I once bought a book of Yeats poetry in a used bookshop. It contained an unsent love letter. I agree with you, Silvio, there is nothing more wonderful, tender, and tragic than an unsent letter. Thank you for yours.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Ann, for sharing that. There's probably no better place than in a used Yeats poetry book for an unsent letter. :)

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Ann Collins's avatar

I thought so, too.

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Nathan Slake's avatar

Every one of these is a piece of magic. It is a highlight of the week when one appears. 😊

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Too kind, Nathan. Thank you! This one -- like the last few, after all -- was put together in a rush. I'm glad it turned out to be something nice to read.

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Nathan Slake's avatar

You seem to be perfectly capable of writing out wonderful pieces even under time pressure. 😁

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you! I'm surprised myself, to be honest (that I can get them done, somehow, in a few hours). While it lasts, I'll take it! :)

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Nathan Slake's avatar

An absolute joy to read. The transition from truths about one's own voice (love the quote from Miles Davis) to the absolute truths about Substack overload, to bringing us full circle back to why we adore your writing so much: the moment when something that impinges on the surreal occurs.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

So grateful to be the recipient of these gems of comments from you every time, Nathan. I like that we share so much in terms of tastes and views. Thank you!

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Nathan Slake's avatar

Me too, my friend. Me too.

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A. A. Kostas's avatar

Wonderful as always Silvio. And I appreciate you slipping in your views on writing courses and online writing and Substack.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Kostas! My humble point of view, of course.

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Susan Ross's avatar

Thank you. Is substack becoming a mine-field?? I think so. I need full time dedication to keep up with all the changes and options, let alone read all that I have subscribed to.

I also feels less guilty for not reading all - except yours, of course.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Susan! I’m honored to be among the ones you regularly read. And yes, it does get overwhelming on here.

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Alex Michael's avatar

This was wonderful Silvio.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Alex!

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Rick Lewis's avatar

I resonate so deeply with your context on finding one’s voice with writing. What a pleasure it has been to watch your’s emerge.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you so much, Rick! I can say the same about you, as we embarked on this journey together. Always nice to see you here, my friend.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Bravo Silvio!

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Kimberly!

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Kosovka Devojka's avatar

I struggle with that everything has already been said….how on Earth can I make a difference…is this self sabotage…don’t know, but you Silvio know how to strike a cord with things/situations that we all have experienced at some point in our life…good job

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you for these nice words! Well, everything has already been said, and yet billions of words get written every day. It’s about the HOW, not the WHAT, in my opinion. :)

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Alexander Ipfelkofer's avatar

(they call them newsletters, but the mere sound of that word gives me orchitis). 😂 A word to remember!

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

I know lol

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Kathleen Clare Waller's avatar

Sharing so much of this sentiment, Silvio! Beautifully put.

I'm in a rough spot work wise, so I find myself really missing my reads (and friends) here. I find that some of the writing I just have to make space for (yours!) even when work makes me feel a bit crazy. I have also found myself thinking of old friends and memories through the echoes of your work.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you so much, Kate! Yes, I think it’s that time of year when things pick up, one way or another, and we all get swept up in them. I'm honored that my writing is something you make space for, as this sentiment is very much reciprocated with yours (on which I'm, once again, behind). I'm always grateful for your readership and comments.

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Maria Valles's avatar

Wow! I know I’ve said or implied this before but this one really spoke to me. I think it’s my favorite (for this week). I could relate to so much of it. You really have a gift; thank you for sharing it.

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Silvio Castelletti's avatar

Thank you, Maria! Glad you could relate to much of the piece. :)

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